More Than My Measurements…

“Todo tiene belleza, pero no todos la pueden ver.” - tattooed on my side lonjitas (“Everything has beauty but not everyone can see it.”)

In a world that bombards us with airbrushed beauty ideals, the journey to embracing our bodies and fostering self-acceptance can be a rocky road. As a first-generation Xer and Latina woman, I've walked that path myself, confronting the societal pressures that defined beauty in narrow terms and equated thinness with worth.

For years, I grappled with these external expectations, feeling like I was in a constant tug-of-war with my own body. But then, I discovered the transformative power of the Somatica® Method. Through this practice, I embarked on a journey of healing and self-discovery that led me to a place of profound acceptance of my body, just as it is.

In this blog post, we'll delve into the nuanced differences between body neutrality, body acceptance and body positivity. We'll explore how these concepts unfold in the realms of singlehood, dating, and committed relationships. Stay tuned as we navigate the intersections of self-love, intimacy, and authentic connections in the context of modern-day relationships. Let's embark on this exploration together, honoring the diverse paths we each walk in embracing our bodies and nourishing our spirits.

Alright, my gente, let's dive into the juicy deets about body neutrality, body acceptance, and body positivity. These terms might get tossed around like confetti at a fiesta, but they ain't the same thing, mi gente.

Body Neutrality: Embracing Your Vessel

Picture this: you're living your best life without constantly obsessing over how your body looks. That's right, we're shifting gears from appearance to appreciating the amazing things our bodies can do.

Body neutrality is all about recognizing that our bodies are kickass vessels that allow us to experience life to the fullest. It's about showing some love to these incredible bods of ours, not because of how they look, but because of all the magical stuff they enable us to do. So, let's embrace our vessel, focus on what it can achieve, and unleash some self-love without getting caught up in the appearance rat race. ¡Vamos!

Body Acceptance: Embracing and Respecting Our Bodies

Now, body acceptance involves actively embracing and respecting our bodies, including their appearance. It's like looking at yourself in the mirror and saying, "Yep, this is me, flaws and all, and I'm still a boss." It's about showering yourself with that self-love, recognizing your worth, and flipping off anyone who dares to disagree. Body acceptance is like saying to yourself, "¡Oye, belleza, estás fabulosa tal como eres!" It's all about showing some love to this amazing vessel that carries you through life. Recognizing that your worth goes way deeper than what anyone else thinks. It's about rockin' those curves, flaunting those quirks, and treating yourself with kindness. So, embrace what makes you YOU, celebrate your body's power, and don't forget to pamper yourself with lots of self-love. ¡A brillar con tu luz propia, mi gente!

Body Positivity: Celebrating and Challenging Beauty Standards

Body positivity is like that amiga who's all about celebrating every body like it's a damn work of art. It's throwing shade at society's messed-up beauty standards and saying, "Hell yeah, you're beautiful just the way you are!" It's all about embracing your body, no matter the shape, size, or how sassy you're feeling that day. Body positivity at its core is like saying, "¡Presente!" to celebrating every body as a masterpiece. It's all about breaking the rules, shaking things up, and saying "¡Basta!" to those unrealistic beauty standards society keeps trying to push on us.

Esta movement is all about embracing our bodies, big or small, curvy or straight, exactly as they are. It's a big "¡Sí, se puede!" to self-love and acceptance no matter what.

We're flipping the script, creating a world where every body is valued, cherished, and respected. It's time to ditch those toxic messages the media keeps throwing at us and start loving ourselves fiercely. ¡Viva la body positivity!

While body neutrality keeps our focus away from looks, body acceptance is all about loving our bodies as is, and body positivity? ¡Dale! It's about flipping the script on beauty standards. Each concept brings something different to the table when it comes to embracing our bodies and showing ourselves a little love. And you know what's wild? They don't cancel each other out! They can hang out together in your journey to self-love and feeling good in your own skin. So, which route you take? Well, that's all up to you, mi amiga. It's about what feels right for you, what you've been through, and what you need. ¡Tú decides, beauty!

Navigating the Single Life: Embracing Self-Love and Empowerment

Oh, mija, let's talk about the struggles of riding the solo train in a world obsessed with picture-perfect relationships. It's like society has this ongoing obsession with looks and standards that have us second-guessing ourselves at every turn. But guess what? I've been there, done that, and let me spill the tea on a little secret that changed my whole game - the Somatica® Method.

This method? It's not just about some surface-level self-love mumbo jumbo. Nah, it's about digging deep and realizing that your worth doesn't rely on fitting into society's tiny box of expectations. It's about embracing every inch of who you are, inside and out. Once I wrapped my head around that, honey, let me tell you - I became a force to be reckoned with.

Now, when it comes to dating and putting myself out there, I don't settle for anything less than what I deserve. I speak my mind, own my desires, and demand the respect that's rightfully mine. 'Cause let's get one thing straight - you are worthy of love, of desire, of everything good that comes your way, no matter what the world tries to feed you.

So, whether you're swiping left, right, or doing a whole tango with someone new, always remember this - you are a boss babe who deserves the world. And don't you dare let anyone make you think otherwise, porque, mija, your self-love game is strong, and that's your superpower.

The Strength in Committed Relationships: Embracing Vulnerability and Growth

Alright, so let's talk about the real deal here - being in a committed relationship ain't always a walk in the park, especially when it comes to embracing our bodies, right? Sure, having a partner who's all about loving and accepting you is like a warm hug for the soul. But hey, let's not forget that it's crucial to hold on to your sense of self-worth too. You gotta keep working on that self-love journey, honey, no matter what.

Now, I constantly apply the skills, and practices I provide to my clients to myself as well, and its been a huge game-changer for me. It's been my secret sauce to open up and lay it all out there with my partners. By using this method, I've managed to voice my needs and desires, making bonds stronger and full of understanding. It's like taking a dip in the pool of vulnerability and coming out even stronger, knowing deep down that I'm more than enough just as I am.

For us Latina mamacitas, embracing body acceptance is a whole other story of self-love and empowerment. By practicing what I coach, I've kicked society's beauty standards to the curb and I continue to learn to love my body inside and out. Whether you're out there playing the dating game or fully committed, one thing stays crystal clear - you are a force to be reckoned with, deserving of all the love and desire in the world.

So, let's keep shaking up the status quo, chicas. Let's celebrate our curves, our flaws, and everything that makes us unique. And most importantly, let's lift each other up on this journey of self-acceptance and love. Because, believe me, we're all in this together.

Feel the power within you as you embrace every lonjitas, every scar, every imperfection that makes you uniquely you. Self-love is not just a choice, it's a revolution - a statement that you are worthy just as you are. Embracing your body is an act of defiance against societal standards and a declaration of your own beauty. Let's come together to empower ourselves and others through the transformative force of self-love. ¡Siéntete orgullosa de quien eres y ámate a ti misma sin reservas!

-La Doña Ingrid 💋